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“Like water”. Non-Binary. Mercurial. Artist.

Abuja, Nigeria
Joined May 2019
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the way the "ungrateful child" concept is way more applicable in reverse: ungrateful parent
Kathy Bates says she was sure she never thanked her mother in her Misery Oscar speech, then the interviewer showed her the tape "She gave up her retirement because I was born so late in life to them." "When I won the Oscar for Misery, she said, I don't know what all the excitement about, you didn't discover the cure for cancer." "Why did I think I didn't thank her?" "Because she should have had my life." "I wanted her spirit to come into me and enjoy everything I was enjoying because of what she'd given up." Her mom's whole review of the Oscar was that she didn't cure cancer, and Kathy still believed she had shorted her that night. Then she watches herself thank her mom at home, right there in the speech. Some people never stop trying to pay their parents back. You can hear it in how quiet she gets at the end. ft: @CBSSunday CBS Sunday Morning on youtube
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betting on losing dogs
Whats it called when u’re extremely self aware but keep ruining your life with the same patterns
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Replying to @danidonovan
my cooking has two modes. full recipe with a grocery list, or standing at the counter eating crackers and calling it a plan
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Replying to @TwinkTheory
Love how in English words like "diva", "queen" and "honey" have these nuances, while "girl" usually goes along the feeling of shock or you're about to be read "Mama", however, indicates you're about to be read every single time
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i was so stressed about acid rain.
As a child, I was so stressed about the ozone layer 😭😭
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English is not enough. Literature is also important.
Just to be clear, a death sentence means that the person sentenced will (definitely) die.
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ADHD so bad i really can’t make no promises
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externalizing depression can be helpful, the things around you are shitty and you're unhappy about it
mindfulness is the most important part of fighting depression and apathy. take in your surroundings. pavement. pothole. nicotine shop flashing neon signs. anti-homeless bench. why do i feel worse
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Replying to @3xKAPsinova
but you knew that this would cause a bit of backlash—you said it yourself multiple times. you won’t even allow yourself the full range to express what feminine traits you don’t like because you know exactly where this will go. and rightfully so. genuinely no shade.
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#9 "The wisdom of the peasant is founded on one essential axiom: while wars may come and go, statesmen rise and fall, and popular attitudes wax and wane, when all is said and done a furrow remains a furrow." — Amor Towles, The Line granta.com/the-line/
I'm going to begin every morning in October by reading a short story.
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officially completed my LL.B with a 2:1 and an A in my final year project! unilag, never again pls. kama pade mo laye 🙏
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At the end of everything I wish Nigerians understood that none of us is happy until the gay people are. Ask around, look at the stats.
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If anyone deserves to live, it is us. It is us, after all this dying we have done.
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Not Tobi being the voice of reason #endtimes
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Homeboy duty🥀
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Replying to @republicjournal
I wrote an article in school on this. If you want to fix dirty politics in Nigeria, fall back to student politics. That's where the misbehaving all begins.
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#journorequests For a Zikoko story I'm working on, I'd love to hear from Nigerians about how they found out their closest friend was doing fraud👀 If you have a story to share, please send me a dm or tell me all about it here: forms.gle/fzJxMY2ktCUVhgKH7 pls rt, thank youuu🙏
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Today is my birthday, but might I interest you in some BTS from my next film FLAWA? I made it with my friends and folks from @ifefilmcommunity. It's my first narrative film since Market People got shot in 2024. I hope to have the trailer and news about it in the coming days.
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i wonder who will be the first person to tattoo my beautiful name.
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