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Cuffing season is approaching, so here is my unsolicited advice for finding love.
1. Appreciate things as much as you can.
All the little things that typically go unnoticed in your day need to start receiving your love for life. A convenient green light, an extra-helpful service worker, a cute squirrel that lets you get just a little closer than usual. It is from your appreciation for life that the rest of your charisma will find its vigour.
2. Show and receive bids of affection graciously (and never stop).
You may find that this is easier earlier in a relationship, when you’re both “drunk on love,” but it is especially important when things aren’t going so well. If your date does something to upset you, communicate it and establish your boundaries, but please don’t hold it against them if they’re trying to show you that they’re sorry. Let things go. There is no love without forgiveness.
3. Learn each other’s love languages.
Your relationship is unique to you; learn how to express love in ways that make sense to your partner. Don’t compare yourself to other relationships, because what works for other people may not work for you and your partner. I believe the key to a successful long term relationship is rooted in a willingness to explore and refine a love language that only you and your partner would perfectly understand.
4. DO NOT BE AFRAID.
If you are attracted to someone, tell them. The worst thing that can happen is nothing. You never know how they’re feeling. This is honestly the easiest part, all things considered.
Good luck, have fun (important) and remember to communicate <3
You don’t want to be someone who constantly condemns the morality of others in ways that display a lack of interest in understanding them. Over time, this behaviour erodes your ability to empathize.
I am once again BEGGING men to consider: if a woman likes you less because you care about her “more” (whatever that means), are you sure this is the kind of woman you even want to attract?
Attraction is a frame battle of who cares less than the other one.
If you care even 1% more than the girl then attraction cannot happen.
And women have unlimited options due to social media, making it easy for them to not care.
The only way to compete with this dynamic is to generate endless options for yourself.
Date so many women that you no longer care about attracting one particular woman.
It’s the only way to succeed in dating for men in 2026.
Say I do have a small penis, you still can’t judge me unless you’ve seen my game tape. They said Allen Iverson was too little.
Humans evolved to have proportionally larger penises compared to body size relative to other animals so we’re technically all big. There is such thing as too big tho.
When my parents came to Canada, we dodged 9/11 by less than 24 hours. The airspace was shut down right after we landed. I’ve always had luck on my side.
I’ve always wondered why guys say “crazy pussy is the best pussy.” My theory is that the “crazy” gives them a victim card they can easily play once they’ve decided the sex is no longer worth the drama. Aella is right with her advice, but it will fall on deaf ears.
my unsolicited advice to men is, don't have casual sex with high neuroticism/bpd-ish women. Stick to stable, reasonable, chill ladies. If the only women you can convince to have sex with you are the unstable ones, then this is a red flag about you, and you will be never truly innocent of the resulting dramas
I often see communists on here talking about capitalism as if it were an evil that should never have existed.
You do understand that Marx viewed capitalism/industrialism as a necessary step toward transitioning to communism, right?
I mean, in order to own the means of production, the means of production have to exist in the first place…
