5'10 | Designer | Box of Ideas | AI explorer & Strategist | Writer
In the hollow of his hands
Joined May 2022
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I love seeing creatives redesign iconic local brands. This Gala concept is sleek, modern, and visually clean.
But as a brand strategist, before i am a designer, looking at the new design highlights a massive trap
I will break it down. 🧵
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Partners are making career sacrifices in real life for each other
People are online screaming 50:50 😂😂
The moment you and your partner can accurately divide things into 50:50, you guys already have problems.
Marriage is 100:100
And it goes beyond bills and house chores.
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reducing love and relationships to mere calculations of additions and deductions, is a sign of a failed human society. there’s something inherently wrong.
This 50/50 discourse is hilarious because men are finally realising that women don’t necessarily want them badly enough to take on the stress and responsibilities that come with relationships.
If I can pay my bills and afford my lifestyle alone, why would I add the emotional labour of nurturing, catering to, managing and accommodating another adult, only to still split bills?
The question is: do people get married for survival or for building a family and companionship?
Because this argument is stale.
Marriage was never supposed to be a 50/50 transaction. There will be days your partner will bring 20% and you bring 80%. There will be days you bring 20% and they bring 80%. And there will be days you both have 100% to give.
That's what partnership is about.
Financial independence is beautiful, and nobody should remain in a relationship/marriage out of financial desperation.
But reducing the value of a relationship to who pays what percentage of the bills misses the bigger picture.
The point isn't to find someone you cannot survive without. It's to find someone you genuinely want to do life with.
I love that women are finally choosing themselves and realising that a man is not a necessity. The truth is, when a woman is financially stable, she really doesn’t need a man to survive. What exactly is the point of having a man in your life if you’re still paying half the bills, doing the emotional labour and carrying responsibilities like you’re raising another child? At that point, what exactly is he bringing to the table? I’d rather remain single, enjoy my money, protect my peace and use my vibrator than sign up for a 50/50 relationship. 😂
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All these 50/50 topics is bullshit. Marriage is 100/100. I bring mine, you bring yours that way the relationship flourish. Not only in finances but in everything. Imagine discussing 50/50 in this present age...
People break-up everytime! It doesn't in any way erase the good memories they shared, and it's not even something to shame anyone over.
If deleting she and her man's pictures is what she can do to move on, then allow her.
Why are you giggling over someone else's heartbreak?! It's not funny, and you're just a miserable person.
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I’ve actually never seen a pregnant Chinese woman. I never knew there’s a reason for that in Chinese culture.
I personally don’t believe that pregnant women or nursing mothers should be going to work. It’s a mark of a broken, money-obsessed society that pregnant women are made to work.
This is so impressive to watch:
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The longer I practice medicine, the more I realize how quickly life can change. We are all one phone call, one diagnosis from a different life.
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Things to remember about me:
- Loved at home
- Not dumb
- Not ugly
That should answer a lot of questions about my behaviour.
Adenike retweeted
just to put this out there... the FDA is warning people using Ozempic for weightloss about the possibility of blindness... be careful guys
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