Woman. Wife. Mother. Writing about womanhood, family, growth & the things we don’t say out loud. Helping marriages and homes thrive.
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Lady Steph retweeted
Lol
She dey mark her territory 🤣🤣🤣🤣
To avoid, You don’t look married, i thought you came alone, blablabla…….
Lady Steph retweeted
Please as you eat tomatoes, make sure your Tomatoes does not have those whitish moulds "see pic"
Don't even try to scrape that part or cut it away. Throw away.
Those whitish things on the Tomatoes are Fungi and can cause Liver Cancer.
Avoid Ata Esha too.
Lady Steph retweeted
Some of you Nigerians in the diaspora are very wicked people
He can you ask someone to build a website for your business and refuse to pay him and then you blocked him.
If you can help kindly Dm. I have the email and website as well as other informations needed.
Lady Steph retweeted
The modern man cries that there are no good women left.
The modern woman screams that there are no good men.
Continue.
Stay single or get married. Neither choice will save you from who you are.
Time is an auditor that eventually collects it's bill.
If you stay single out of pride and cynicism, time charges you with isolation.
If you marry a fool out of desperation and poor vetting, time charges you with misery and lost leverage.
Make your decision but you pay the price.
Selah!
Lady Steph retweeted
When I started job hunting after NYSC, the first thing I was told by elders was that I should never look for a job in companies without a good reputation, and if I discovered that the company didn't remit pensions regularly or pay salaries on time, I should resign quickly.
End.
Lady Steph retweeted
We have good mothers but the horrible & manipulative nature of mothers aren’t even talked about enough.
They will gaslight you with the whole 9 months journey. I’m a mother & I pray I don’t try to emotionally manipulate my kids with something they didnt have power to choose.
I've noticed this. My wife immediately was skeptical of Clancy.
My wife's mother definitely has something wrong with her. She seemed normal enough until I took my (pre) wife on a second date and bought her some sterling silver and opal earrings. I liked this girl and was able to haggle the guy down, so I bought them.
When I took her back to her parents place, her mother was livid. Her reaction made no sense to me, but she was visibly irate.
My father was an intense and powerful man, so whatever show of force this woman thought she was putting on didn't register as worth concern to me.
So whatever. I liked this girl and I got a good price on the earrings.
After I left, my then girlfriend was informed by her mother that *she* didn't get opal earrings till her 5-year anniversary, and so it is both unfair and inappropriate for her daughter to receive such a gift while dating. Who did she think she was, using this guy for his money?
When she called and told me that, I didn't have any basis of reference for that level of pettiness. It was the spoiled reasoning of a 13 year old girl, but more twisted.
I took it to my father and told him what had happened, and he cleared it up immediately:
"If you are going to keep on with this girl, her mother will never be happy about it. She will always find reasons to fight you. She's in competition with her daughter. If you end up marrying her, do it for her, but understand you won't have a mother in law worth having."
And that ended up being the case.
After we were married (her mother tried to wail and cause a scene at the wedding, but my sisters were predeployed to cut off her nonsense at the pass... The woman was that predictable), my wife decided that having Mommy Dearest involved was not worth it, so wrote her a letter laying out how her conduct was unacceptable and told her she must apologize and change if she wants to see her grandkids.
She recieved a letter back admitting that perhaps as a mother she had made some mistakes, "BUT YOUUUUU!" and then page upon page of bitter ranting of what a terrible daughter she had been.
And that ended it. Haven't seen that woman in 18 years.
Lady Steph retweeted
Once you as a man, cannot proudly say in the public that your wife is the feeding you, paying the rent and school fees of your children, then there is no point arguing that a man should not be the sole provider.
Have you seen any woman who feels ashamed to say publicly that her husband is the one providing for her?
Infact, if she exposes it publicly that she has been the one feeding her husband and paying all the bills, the husband will be so angry, and start to maltreat and resent her.
You all should face reality and roll up your sleeves and be MEN.
End.
Lady Steph retweeted
Good morning and happy Sunday! May your heart be at peace, your mind be renewed, and your day be filled with beautiful moments. Wishing you a truly blessed Sunday! 🙏❤️
Lady Steph retweeted
That’s simple tweet about supporting your woman,is what brought all these rage & I understand because too many men have been burnt.
Same way a woman shouldn’t be forced to support you with anything in your growth era.
Let everybody make it on their own & do as they wish ✌️.
Lady Steph retweeted
Perfect!!!
Unfortunately, you see the ones who before even marrying are already saying they cannot put a woman first.
You'll wonder why... here's why...
They view relationships as a competition instead of a collaboration.
If you are terrified of putting a woman first, it means you don't actually trust the women you are married to.
If you marry a komodo dragon, you'll always be on the defensive.
But when you marry a woman worth building a life with, putting her first happens effortlessly.
Selah!
Lady Steph retweeted
Make sure you marry a woman who will sharpen you, and who you can sharpen as well.
Those who are reading this wrong do not understand the math.
You are the one who ultimately benefits from this.
But here we are.
Toxic boys and incels are shouting from their limited perspective of boyfriend and girlfriend dynamics.
If you leave a woman unsharpened, idle, and unaccountable, she becomes a huge liability.
She will eventually use her mouth and her aggression to tear down your house from the inside because she has nothing else to do.
But a woman you build up... who actually has skin in the game and her own reputation to protect... uses her voice to defend the home, not destroy it.
You cannot build a strong house with weak materials.
Sharpen her, enforce accountability, and enjoy the peace.
Selah!
Guys, when you are in a long-term relationship with a good woman, try everything you can to improve her. I don’t just mean with material things. Remember: “I even bought her IPhone and “Bone Straight” is for weak and inferior men. Yes, you will do those but they shouldn’t be your claim to fame.
Improve her professionally, academically (if she wants) and financially, and give her security. You will benefit from it more than you think.
I am Ezemmuo. I know things.
Lady Steph retweeted
Comprehension is a serious issue on x.
People do not read to understand.
They read to respond.
Lady Steph retweeted
Some of us entered marriage without much knowledge,but with the mindset that,“This will work.”
That mindset matters, but marriage also requires more than good intentions.
It takes two to tango.
Two people willing to communicate, adjust, forgive, take responsibility and grow.
Lady Steph retweeted
Some of us value peace over drama.
We have experienced so much that, at this point, we just want to keep our sanity intact.
Sometimes, choosing peace is not weakness.
It is wisdom.
Lady Steph retweeted
Cucumber juice is one of the simplest natural drinks you can make at home, yet many people underestimate how refreshing and nutritious it can be.
Here’s a simple way to make fresh cucumber juice:
Wash 2 fresh cucumbers, slice them into pieces, blend with cold water, then add lemon, ginger, or a little honey if desired. Strain and serve chilled.
Cucumber is rich in water, making it great for hydration. It also provides nutrients that support overall health and is naturally low in calories. Lemon and ginger can add extra flavor and make the drink even more refreshing, especially on a hot day.
Healthy living doesn’t always require expensive supplements. Sometimes, simple foods from nature are all you need.
Stay healthy. Eat well. Live well.
