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Thank you @MiningHabit for collecting "American Summer, Nearly Fall" from Moments of the Unknown Painting pre-sale for 1.111 ETH
Thank you @hittman_ for collecting "Tea Ceremony" from Moments of the Unknown Painting pre-sale for 1.111 ETH.
This piece represents all the friendships and connections we can make just from stopping and sipping on tea together. Time is what brings us together, the laughter and joy of sharing stories. This one we pour out to all the friends we lost and whose spirits we carry with us in our hearts.
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It is my pleasure to announce that the Illini are once again a juggernaut.
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Being unproductive because you're depressed and being depressed because you've been unproductive is a special kind of hell cycle i wish for no person.
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People slag off Muslims, but come on. You can’t judge an entire religion based on how 98% of them behave
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We just witnessed the most grown man moment in college football this year
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it's a huge clue about the real nature of ADHD that rejection sensitive dysphoria is such a common symptom / comorbidity. that tells you that ADHD is not really about "attention" as such. gabor mate's book title "scattered minds" gets closer; something is scattered which wants to be regathered, something is diffuse which wants to be dense
when you're scattered you're unsure who you are or what you want or what to do or what to pay attention to so external influences push and pull at you more generally. you're grabbing onto external things to check if they might be your self or your feelings or your desires (this is what you're doing when you're doomscrolling btw) so if you get rejected it feels devastating because you're grabbing onto it and you're like is this me? am i fundamentally bad and unlovable? is it the essence of me to be rejected?
there's a different way that can go if you're less scattered, denser, which is harder to describe because it feels like almost nothing, but it feels like almost nothing because of your weight, because of gravity, and a random rejection just doesn't have enough weight to it to perturb your orbit. you can collect together the mass of you, you can move together coherently, in harmony, the accumulated weight of your entire life, everything you've experienced and done and sensed and felt and know. you can become heavy, like grief but also like a mountain, not immovable but vast, tectonic, forested, snow-capped
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My therapist once told me, “Anger is the part of you that loves you the most. It shows up when you’re being mistreated, ignored, or disrespected. It’s a signal calling you to step away from what’s harming you. Whether it’s a room, a job, a relationship, or an old version of yourself, anger lets you know when it’s time to walk away. If you learn to listen to it, to trust it, and make it your ally, it won’t need to shout so loudly.” That conversation never left me… it changed the way I see myself.
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People talk about the narcissist's mask as if there's a true face hiding under a false one.
I'd put it differently. There are several versions, and each one appears where it pays. The charming one in public. The wounded one when confronted. The furious one at home. None of them is fake, exactly. They're all deployed.
What that tells you isn't who the person really is. It's that the behaviour is a choice that tracks the audience. That's enough to act on.
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This has to be one of the best jokes on transgenderism I’ve ever heard. At the same time, the logic adds up 😂
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男人只要愿意陪一个认知低的女人走下去，那么这个女人大概率会让你知道，她不但认知低，而且连良心都不会有。
心理学上有个概念叫受助者恶意（Taker's Malice)，意思是当一个人认知层次不够时，你越是毫无保留地帮她、对她好，她反而不会感恩，只会滋生出隐秘的恨意与轻视。你对谁过度付出，就要背负谁的命运。
你总以为只要自己足够好，就能把一个人带上来。但现实是你改不了任何人，只能见证她慢慢暴露本性。一个认知长期停在低位的人，她最稳定的状态不是成长，而是反复。
你给她理解，她会觉得你好说话；你给她付出，她会觉得这是理所当然。你一旦退一步，她不会感激，只会继续往前要。为什么？因为她的世界里没有交换和共赢，只有占有和索取。
你以为你在经营关系，其实你只是在被消耗。她的快乐来自比较，她的安全感来自控制，她的满足感来自你不断让步。而你越是让步，她就越觉得你不值钱。
关系从来不是靠感动维持的，而是靠价值对等。当一个人既缺资源、又缺认知、还缺边界感的时候，她最擅长的不是爱你，而是利用你。
人只会变得更像自己，不会变成你想要的样子。你可以不高攀，但你一定要筛选。因为婚姻不是救赎，更不是扶贫。
你拿一生去赌的从来不是爱情，而是概率。赌赢了，这是你运气好；赌输了，那就只能认命。而大多数人输就输在明知道不对，还不肯及时止损。
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Sydney Sweeney shared a text exchange with her man, and things got REAL messy. 😳💔 I already made my mind up. I don’t want to be with you. I need to be alone for a while.
He ended it with, “Yeah, I’m done. You’ll be fine. Take care of yourself.”
Imagine going from loving someone to becoming strangers just like that. 💔🥀
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I agree with this woman 💯.
She just explained why so many of us went quiet and it wasn’t because we “changed” or got bitter. It’s because every single time we opened our mouth, we paid for it. Friends turned. Family took the abuser’s side. Suddenly WE were the dramatic, unstable ones while the person who was destroying us soaked up all the sympathy.
So we stopped talking. Not out of weakness. Out of survival.
That part about isolation not being a choice but a strategy... yeah. That one sat heavy. Because once you’ve been betrayed by the person you loved the most AND watched everyone else side with them, trusting anybody starts feeling dangerous as hell.
And the most messed up part? The survivor ends up carrying the shame while the abuser gets the spotlight. Crazy how that works.
If this video found you and it felt personal… drop a 💔 in the comments. No need to explain. Just so the people who went silent know they’re not as alone as they think.