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Marriage is all hands on deck, if you’re not ready for that, male or female then there is no point
Norbert retweeted
“My money is my money but your money is our money”.
Very stupid and selfish sentence.
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I feel bad for single and searching people in all of these. These fixed mindsets have made people so guarded and defensive.
I insist there are good people, men and women; may God help you not to miss them when they come around.
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Any partner that refuses to see her income as family income and share the bills with you, hates you. If you're abroad, she wants you dead.
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The concept of ‘my money is my money and your money is our money’ is a zero-sum game if you live abroad. It’s a gateway to unnecessary struggle & poverty. You can have a better quality of life, with kids in better schools, better houses and better cars, if everyone pitches in.
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After fighting for equality, you’re now fighting for the right to be provided for. You want the man to be the sole provider by all means, even when you’re perfectly capable of contributing. You’re basically fighting to bring back the same patriarchal system you claim to have fought against.
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If you're committing to someone, it's 100/100, everything is included,chores Ooo,finances Ooo, it's your home and you both should invest your all into it.where your treasure is therein lies your heart.if you don't commit to your family, where else are you going to commit to?.
Can someone educate me, please? Nigerian women living abroad, whether married to or dating Nigerian men, how exactly does this 50/50 arrangement work?
Do you split everything financially down to the last penny? And do the men also split household responsibilities 50/50? Chores, cooking, cleaning and everything that comes with running a home? Or is it just the bills that are expected to be shared equally while the responsibilities at home remain largely on the woman's shoulders?
I genuinely want to understand because I don't live abroad, and I don't understand the dynamics behind all this 50/50 debate that's been dominating my timeline.
I also want to believe that some Nigerian men living abroad are married to Nigerian women or are in relationships with them. Do your wives split the bills 50/50? Do your girlfriends contribute equally?
And if some women come out to say they don't believe in splitting bills 50/50, why does that suddenly become an excuse to drag and generalise all Nigerian women? That's the part I don't understand.
Now, because of this same argument, foreigners have joined in to insult and generalise Nigerian women, and some Nigerian men are happily clapping along.
Well, I'm not surprised. Anything to drag a Nigerian woman, anything to disparage, degrade or humiliate her, and some of you are right there, eager to join in. Put all Nigerian women under one tweet and watch how excited some of you become.
Some of you will eventually marry Nigerian women. Some of you already have Nigerian wives. You have mothers, sisters, female cousins and other female relatives. Yet you find it so easy to insult an entire population of women because of the actions or opinions of a few.
We all know that not every Nigerian woman thinks or behaves the same way. So why is it so difficult to make that distinction?
Honestly, the level of excitement and the kind of erection some of you have been getting from this gender war over the past few days is something else.
Some people genuinely enjoy having a reason to hate and insult women. Keep being the idiots you are. Some men are just completely off it for me.
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Sis💕, in comparison to other things that are left on roughly the same salary.
You guys are making a good wage-gap argument and to why companies should prioritize male employment if this is eventually how it’s going to manifest itself in the household and society by extension.
Oh i know they’re women who contribute and some even are the ones carrying the burden of the family.
We still have the ladies who believe bringing 20percent from their income is enough contribution.
Even when the both of them earn the same amount.
My tweet was for that
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A Nigerian woman that likes you will go above and beyond for you sha. Stop going after people that don't like you.
Amos 3:3 - Can two walk together, except they be agreed?
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If your man is comfortable watching you do house chores alone, he hates you. If your woman is comfortable watching you carry all the bills alone, she hates you. Anything that doesn’t involve both of you making each other’s lives easier in ALL areas is definitely not love.
C'est fini.
Combine income or please remain single.
I have said it a million times and I'll say it again.
Anyone who values money above their relationship with you, is not a good person for you. Fling them away.
A person who is willing and choosing to hoard their money rather than pouring it on you and the home you share together, is your enemy. There is no such thing as "I love you, but my money is my money. I cannot give it to a man."
The "I cannot" is already evidence they do not love you.
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Norbert retweeted
Apart from the few men who change after marriage, most men who don't cook or do house chores were already like that before getting married. You knew he was like that and still went ahead to marry him. Stop expecting marriage to change habits you were already aware of while dating
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"I'll support when I want" is not love either.
"I'll suport when his finances are down" is just witchcraft. It is your father's finances that will be down.
Relationship means doing life together and doing life together means carrying bills together.
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This is what marriage is suppose to be like.
That's why the bible say two become one.
I'm not even interested in 50/50 you guys are talking about, I want 100/100.
Our money is the family money, we plan with it and achieve things quicker.
We're transparent with eachother.
I’m a blind person, and my wife makes more money than me here in Canada. and we have a policy of love, which means her money is the family’s money, and my money is the family’s money. We don’t even talk about 50 50. Instead, we talk about giving our marriage 100 100. today we have a very loving and successful marriage. And we are blessed with two amazing children and living happily in Canada
Abeg make una leave @BelovedDauta na my paddy.
She Dey sabi raigebait me.
😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
The tweet exchange between @NorbertIfy and that babe
Brooo
Nigerian girls are something else
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If husband is earning , then he should take all bills
These useless people don’t even feel that they are irresponsible at all
Even said if you earn 2k don’t marry
This club is just useless
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