My husband suddenly started showering as soon as he came home from work, and the first time I questioned him, he told me I was becoming insecure. At first, I didn’t think much of it. He’d always cared about looking presentable, but lately, he wouldn’t even kiss me until he’d changed his clothes. One evening, I hugged him from behind while he was checking his phone. He moved away so quickly that I actually laughed. “What’s wrong with you?” I asked. “Nothing. I’m sweaty.” Then a message appeared on his screen. I wasn’t trying to read his private conversations, but the preview caught my attention. “Did she notice the perfume?” I stepped back. He locked his phone and walked into the bathroom without saying another word. That night, I waited until we were in bed and asked him who the woman was. He said it was someone from work. “Then why are you asking her whether I noticed your perfume?” He stared at me for a moment before saying, “Because I need to tell you something, and you’re going to misunderstand it.”