As a woman I don’t take anything a woman says or do seriously. They are driven by emotions, they have the emotional intelligence of a 15 year old child. Like teenagers everything with them is transactional. Their bodies aged but mentally and emotionally they never matured. Honestly it’s even worse when they are over 30. Their mood and decisions shifts like the wind. They are inconsistent and don’t know what they really want. That’s why socially engineering them is so easy. A society of just women fail. Look at women only gyms. A man with a lot to lose needs to navigate women like a land mine. Once to learn the two primary motivations of women you will never look at them the same way. Selecting a wife will be more discriminatory. I say let them pursue you. Women fucked this up. They should deal with the consequences. Women who work in professions with serious consequences, where their decisions can get someone killed are the ones who know how to take responsibility and accountability. They are few in numbers.