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Joined January 2022
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FUB free. ‘Cause I’m here to rant a lot and be a heavy retweeter, usually.
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Can some cis people STOP speaking over trans experience? Or their voices deserve to be silenced or kirked instead, injek sampe benyek.
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It’s common sense to not speak over what you don’t experience.
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And they’re usually NPCs along with their own autopilot mode.
really don’t trust people obsessed with hustle culture, soulless vibes
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Not everyone has good taste and excellent quality, though.
tapi ya.... kalo dipikir2 the point of being woke and a feminist is that you're not gonna be liked by everyone 🤷🏻‍♀️ ur gonna be hated by the anti-woke, anti-feminist crowd. ur gonna make people uncomfortable w ur views and that's okay.
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Some people are lame as fuck and we ain’t one of them. That’s all.
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Who the fuck do you think you are? Lmao
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Yeah, in fact commitment and being treated right don’t have to be earned through marriage. Marriage has always been built from “Women are more valued and should be taken more seriously when they’re owned by a man.” Whereas, treating them right is a must instead.
i don’t know why y’all get so triggered when marriage is rightfully being criticized. you can aspire to get married whilst acknowledging that marriage is a deeply patriarchal institution lmao
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Marriage is inherently and fundementally patriarchal and hierarchical no matter how much people defend or are in denial about it ‘cause there’s inherent power imbalance and it does benefit men more. Women should be valued regardless.
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What I can say is if people feel better about themselves through stupid shallow hierarchies, maybe they can start considering they haven’t earned anything much even for themselves to begin with.
People who validate themselves by social hierarchies are … losers. Plain & simple. That’s why they hate people that don’t give af about that weirdo shit.
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Banyak kritik valid buat yang di-SS tapi yang di-highlight malah kebodohan mindset elu.
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If you see queers’ existence (especially trans women’s) as something crossing the line or not respecting boundaries, please kys. Fucking disgusting.
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Yeah, but I want it to last forever.
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Apasih kocak wkwkwk I’m neither that pathetic nor desperate. Don’t worry.
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Me? Wanting to collect crumbs of cake? In your fucking wild dream.
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Karena ya emang gak semua orang demen indirect communication kalo bilangnya A, diem-diem berniat B.
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Missed my point and putting words into my mouth means absolutely wrong.
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Jujur, gw ilfeel banget sama tipe-tipe yang flexing too much “pergaulan bebas” atau kayak baru “keren”. Keliatan. Intinya keliatan banget kalo jenis-jenis begini antara baru ngerasain or they don’t any meaningful accomplishment in their life, yet.
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Masalahnya flexing in bragging way, in obnoxious way, terus pengen ninggi dari orang lain cuman perkara yang bahkan gak penting atau orang juga gak peduli.
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At least, I’m not the slave of social hierarchies, problematic fucked up system and status quo. ❤️
You will be the most hated if you don’t participate in social hierarchies and refuse to kiss ass
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Malah rentan banget dimanfaatin dan ditipu-tipu. Karena justru keliatan banget kalo sebenernya lu vulnerable in “playing hard to get” way so you try to seek “the one”.
Good men exist, i agree. But if u as a woman go out there nyari pasangan lo dg mindset kek gtu, lo bakal kena humble very quickly. Cus the majority of men are NOT good men. Its actually safer for u to think that all men are dangerous. Also, pls have high standard n never settle
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Well-said. Banyak yang glorifikasi ayah mereka padahal ya benevolent patriarchy aja to the point they’ve ended up romanticizing it all. They don’t realize their old men made them NPC daddy’s little girl. I get it some may struggle to be automatically aware, but gotta be.
ayah mereka sebenarnya patriarki juga. cuman beruntung aja ayahnya masih orang baik which is bare minimum
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This is why deconstructing matters, detaching from some of our parents’ values matters. Gak semua nilai yang dipegang orang tua (walaupun keliatannya baik) itu otomatis oke. Get some self-agency! #DontBePuppet
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Respectability politics is useless and only dummies who fall for its propaganda.
i wish queers who act like theyre "the good ones" know that no matter what, conservatives are still and will always be the enemy and wont tolerate them no matter how much they make fun of other queers
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I assume some of #them are psyops. They’re dense on purpose.
kenapa lgbtqia ini sekarang western atau American centered bgt ya😭kyknya susah bgt dikasih tau klo emg di luar western atau american other queers itu kesulitan buat hidup? Or acknowledge eksitensi mereka yg masih terpaksa follow religious beliefs😭
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