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I have a particular fear of deeply insecure people. Some can be incredibly manipulative and vindictive. When someone's ego is fragile and their need for validation goes unmet, you never really know how far they'll go to protect it.
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Why the heck are u being gay but you dont support queer rights, do you expect queer people to just live in secret, love in hidden, and not even have the right to exist?, So, you expect queer people to live lowkey, and then when theyre outed gonna face hatred and living in danger?
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menurut gue kalau lu sendiri internalized homophobia sampe ngeshare template itu di ig padahal diri lu sebenernya queer, mending diem deh daripada lu ngebahayain community lu sendiri, gue sadar kok banyak orang orang yang butuh defend dirinya dan melindungi identitas nya
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Ketika ada penolakan status quo, pasti akan selalu ada yg gak nyaman
Jadi masalah penerimaan dan “comfort” yg privileged bukan jadi tolak ukur pergerakan gue rasa
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Dulu pas warga kulit hitam US menolak perbudakan, warga kulit putih pada “gak nyaman”
Pas first wave feminism, perempuan minta hak voting, hak kepemilikan properti, dan hak setara lainnya, laki2 (dan internalized misogynistic women) pada “gak nyaman”
Collective change requires us to grow out of pain and discomfort. Some strategies are supposed to be disruptive enough, hence why the collective care is needed to protect the most vulnerable ones when this disruption emerges.
You are not running a CSR or PR management here, you can’t expect immediate good impact and acceptable good image in the eyes of the majority. If you want to make it feel “comfortable”, go to that gym spa or make your own arisan circle instead.
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Yang harusnya diteriakin “fokus ke permasalahan inti” itu homophobe nya, bukan queer nya. Mereka liat bendera pelangi di demo aja pada kebakaran jembut, sampe ada perkumpulan rasa ormas (di surabaya) parani pamer massa segala
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MAYBE those cishets r still willing to fuck you if youre polite, ngewe mah gampang ga perlu ribet ngehormatin orang. but they will still k!ll you begitu kweer2 yg ga berisik udh ga ada dan ga ada yg belain lo lagi. hv some self respect aja sih kata gw
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kweer2 pick me yg sok suci ga mau terlihat kasar in front of their oppressors ini padahal ntar juga bakalan menikmati hasil jerih payah kweer2 yg berisik, seperti yg sudah2 dlm sejarah. ga tau diri
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What a good day to block people who protest against homosexual louder than protest toward their own shitty ass govt
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Gini yaaa,,,
Orang ngeTwit tentang dirinya, di sini, bukan berarti pick me.
Wajar lah dia ngomongin tentang dirinya sendiri, daripada ngomongin orang lain.
Jangan apa² salty, siapa tau mungkin kamunya yg dengky.
Fokus perbaiki diri, jangan terlalu sibuk ngurusin orang lain.😌
Adrian retweeted
gw harap lu pada yang kwir bisa bunuh polisi di kepala lu bisa lepas dari internalized homophobia lu
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Yup, justru mandang lower income ppl udah pasti tolol atau inclined melakukan hal yg buruk itulah yg klasis.
Ngertiin kenapa mereka inclined melakukan hal tsb itu bagus. Tapi kalo sampe mewajarkan, dan merasa mereka harus dapat privilege ga boleh dikritik/dimarahin itu mah bias.
