
š³š¬ šøš¦ Muslimah Writer Winner: 2022 @the_swapNG Shortlist: Discoveries 2025 Longlist: Commonwealth Prize 2022 Reproductive Health Doctor & Founder, @SRH_Ed
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Replying to @zumamalicious @enisullyman
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But like, what if sheās a poor relative? Like sheās from that background but her parents died earlyā¦?
Replying to @zumamalicious @enisullyman
Hmmmn. That might be hard. Sheās not from a privileged background. Would that still work?
Replying to @zumamalicious @enisullyman
Tbh, I thought that was the case but I didnāt know for sure, which is why I specified the Muslim part
Replying to @zumamalicious @enisullyman
Ah. Sorry for my ignorance o, is your family from the Fulani part?
Oya please tell me na - I might be tempted to switch my bride to come from your side o
Replying to @RihanotOjoOba
I raise you until the relationship breaks down and the inner demon is unleashed.
Wo, ki Oloun sa ma so wa
Replying to @zumamalicious @enisullyman
Yoruba part please. No carry me go wey i no know
Replying to @zumamalicious @enisullyman
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That one na una internal issue o. Me I no dey dia
Replying to @precioushaj
Perfect Iāll be in your DM once I set it up š
Replying to @precioushaj
O ti da. Welcome and thank you!
Are you happy to jump on a zoom call to have a conversation about this?
Calling my Ilorin peeps!
Now is your chance to flaunt your culture o. š¤
If you are able and willing to describe the traditions of a Ilorin (Muslim) wedding, please indicate below šš¾ (or in my DMs)
Thank you for supporting my ministry
@zumamalicious @enisullyman youāre up!!!
Replying to @RihanotOjoOba
Your own mama no still dey spend money on you?! š¤£
Bcos my own still sent me foodstuff from Naija recently o, at this my big age š¤
Ani ki Oloun ma bunkun wa
Replying to @RihanotOjoOba
Heās now on 47
Hopefully his feet have stopped growing, now that heās in his 20s
From age 14 till heās become responsible for himself, I get the son only one pair of shoes at a time
Because he outgrew them like kilode and he was wearing size 45 as a teenager so we had to buy from American brands or custom made from Naija
Wo! Parenting na scam š¤£
Replying to @Cyberhijabitech @Queen_Raffy
So⦠his consent would have made it ok?
Guys.
Guys!
Look what I found!!!
Replying to @roving_thinker
My brain has refused to tell me where I kept these glasses
ATP, I might just have to accept that they are lost š
This sounds great, as long as the passive āraising menā here is not laid at the feet of women
Hold men accountable for their actions - thatās the only root
Until then, women should arm themselves with whatever they need to navigate life, including their own money
Replying to @qaozy
It is raising men with empathy
Families functioning like they should when issues arise
Dealing with ourselves with the fear of Allah
Of course, I am not against a woman making her own money but it shouldn't be in anticipation of a man treating her terribly.
Muti'ah Badruddeen retweeted
i need muslim women to stop this rubbish infantilisation of themselves under the guise of haya. youāre an adult, stop feigning naĆÆvetĆ©, thereās a lot of resources at your fingertips. educate yourself. you have to learn to navigate the world we live in.
This has got to be engagement farming
Recently Iāve seen a lot of people complaining about being asked to clean an Airbnb when theyāve already paid a cleaning fee
As a host, I find this attitude quite worrying
My wife and I rent out the apartment in Germany. We charge a ā¬145 cleaning fee, and we still expect guests to:
1. Strip the beds and start a wash, separating whites from colours
2. Wash, dry and put away all dishes
3. Sweep and mop the floors
4. Take out all rubbish, separating paper, cardboard, clear glass, coloured glass, plastics, metal, organic waste and residual waste
5. Take bottles with a deposit to the supermarket return machine.
6. Send photos showing the apartment is ready before the 8:30am checkout
These tasks must be completed before departure. If you have an early flight, allow time the evening before
The cleaning fee pays for professional cleaning. It does not pay for someone to pick up after you
Here in Europe, we teach children to leave a place as they found it
I donāt think itās unreasonable to expect the same from adults on holiday







