Harriet the Lead off Double

When someone tells you they have cancer, the instinct is often to find the “right” thing to say… You don’t need the perfect words. You need to be present. Many respond with… “I knew someone who had that.” “My aunt went through the same thing.” “You need to stay positive.” “Everything happens for a reason.” Those words are usually offered with love but in that moment, the person sitting in front of you may simply need to know that you see them. Try 👇🏽 “Thank you for telling me.” “I’m sorry you’re facing this.” “What would be helpful right now?” “What would you like me to keep private?” Listening can be one of the greatest gifts we give another person. You don’t have to fix it. You don’t have to explain it. You don’t have to make the moment more comfortable. Just stay present long enough to hear what they actually need. That matters. ❤️ #JustBePresent #YouDontHaveToFixIt