...well, you made it this far, now what?

Joined August 2021
Bhebby Ghel retweeted
One of the strongest signs of genuine love isn’t simply how much someone wants you. It’s whether they’re willing to confront the parts of themselves that make loving you difficult. Someone who truly values the relationship will be willing to examine their behaviour, question their defensive patterns, and acknowledge the habits that keep hurting the connection. They won’t only tell you how afraid they are of losing you. They’ll take meaningful steps to protect what you’ve built together. That means learning to communicate instead of shutting down, taking responsibility instead of making excuses, and choosing growth even when it requires uncomfortable self-reflection. Love isn’t just a feeling or a promise. It’s also the willingness to change the behaviours that repeatedly damage the bond. If someone refuses to acknowledge how their actions affect you, their feelings alone cannot make the relationship healthy. Genuine love needs accountability, mutual effort, and a willingness to become better partners to each other.
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New age unlocked! 🎉 Here’s to me, to growth, to love, to answered prayers, and to a life that feels as beautiful as I’ve always hoped it would. May the years ahead be kinder, fuller and absolutely glorious. 🥂
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It is generally wise for women, especially young women, to limit the access that men have to them. If you are an even moderately attractive or intelligent young women, men are going to repeatedly proposition you in some pretty strange and undesirable ways until your threat detection pattern recognition builds up a natural distrust and contempt for men. It also just causes background stress and anxiety to have to be on your guard around men all the time. Much potential nonsense, upset and danger can be averted by minimising your engagement with men as much as possible. Of course, if you are ambitious and want to accomplish anything worth accomplishing as a woman, then men are pretty unavoidable, as they are the vast majority at the highest levels of competence hierarchies, and thus if you are going to properly apply yourself in a way that makes avoiding them unfeasible, you should generally carry yourself in a way that makes you seem uninteresting and otherwise unapproachable. Aim to be efficient and bland, rather than interesting and likeable. Don't be pleasant, sweet or complimenting, because they will your warmth as a sign of receptivity to their lust driven overtures, and start to fantasise you are attracted to them. Do not accentuate your sexuality by dressing to entice them for whatever meagre dopamine hits that may bring you. Aim to go largely unnoticed by all except who you need to be noticed by - do not be conspicuous. If you are too interesting, likeable and play even small attention games, you will end up in many awkward and undesirable situations. Some of these situations be genuinely dangerous, whilst others may just lose you opportunities in your unwillingness to reciprocate warmth or forfeit your dignity. The men with ill designs on you will be many, whilst the ones you can genuinely appreciate, feel safe around and trust will be few. Truth be told, women do not really have any business working alongside men, and so if you are going to regardless, these are the sorts of protective measures you should be taking.
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Bhebby Ghel retweeted
Thank you God for another day, and for the gift of life.
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Bhebby Ghel retweeted
There’s always better. You find better, you become better, you eventually know better. Things always get better.
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Bhebby Ghel retweeted
you're single, not isolated. Keep some FWBs, lovers, and links in your back pocket. You don't have to go without because you're not in a relationship with someone
Being single is peaceful until you start missing physical affection. 😭
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at some point you have to stop treating the person who hurt you like the final authority on whether you're worthy of being loved.
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Bhebby Ghel retweeted
I’ve realized that not every friendship ends because of an argument or betrayal. Sometimes you just start paying attention to the dynamics and realize this isn’t a connection you want to continue maintaining. No hard feelings, just different expectations of friendship.
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Bhebby Ghel retweeted
next time your mom show you an unfunny memes, remember how she reacted when you showed her your wack crayon drawings.
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Bhebby Ghel retweeted
a nigga liking me means nothing they like evb
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Bhebby Ghel retweeted
What doesn't kill you will text you once in awhile to check if you're still attached .
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Bhebby Ghel retweeted
letting people experience your family is an underrated act of intimacy. you can't do that with everybody.
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If you only knew how far a man would go for a woman he genuinely wants, you’d be disgusted with yourself for all the begging, compromising, and excuses you made just to get the bare minimum. 😭
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Bhebby Ghel retweeted
Life is so poetic. The right things always have a way of finding you
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😂😂😂
So basically i Country ihlanya yonke 🤣🤣
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Bhebby Ghel retweeted
Mara Bonang ma'an , Queen B is damn beautiful 😍, as she is rocking demnas debut 2026 collection.
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And we lose our minds every time she does it. Pop Star stuff! Read up on Michael Jackson's signature moonwalk. Stuff of Legends!!! Tyla's on the right path 😊
She’s never a Versatile, this is the same dance she’s been doing for the past two years
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Bhebby Ghel retweeted
i am the luckiest person alive. i always get the best news out of nowhere, i am deeply spoiled, loved & cared for. things just work out so good for me.
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Bhebby Ghel retweeted
A man who doesn’t protect your nervous system isn’t a protector at all.
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Guys, is Bab'Herman well? I worry about hishealth and fitness to be Mayor health-wise. He looks frail. I hope he's okay 🥺
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