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I published a piece on this just today. The good life transcends filling our evenings and weekends with atomizing extracurriculars for kids or even just sitting at home together. Expand the definition of family time to mean "time my family spends with other families".
The disappearance of “third spaces” that are neither home nor work, coupled with stigma against married couples with kids spending evenings or weekends outside the home, has created a society of “family pods” that don’t intermingle nearly enough. Children benefit from their parents’ wide friend network. They have more possible godparents or future mentors/connections to jobs, people to take them to school when parents are sick, or many many other advantages. people in the early to mid 1900s simply had better social sense and civic/community mindedness than people now. Not everything translates to an internet analogue, including but not limited to socialization and community for your family.
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The disappearance of “third spaces” that are neither home nor work, coupled with stigma against married couples with kids spending evenings or weekends outside the home, has created a society of “family pods” that don’t intermingle nearly enough. Children benefit from their parents’ wide friend network. They have more possible godparents or future mentors/connections to jobs, people to take them to school when parents are sick, or many many other advantages. people in the early to mid 1900s simply had better social sense and civic/community mindedness than people now. Not everything translates to an internet analogue, including but not limited to socialization and community for your family.
I'm sorry but this is so fucking lame. Your grandparents partied. Your grandparents hosted, they went to bars, they did shit. They didnt sit around and pride themselves for spending all of their free time staring at their children and mowing the lawn. Get the fuck out of your house. Take your wife out for a drink and listen to some live music. Have a conversation with someone at the bar. Go to a hockey game with your college buddies. Youre not somehow more mature for being homebound. Get a life.
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"Your Grandparents Partied."
I'm sorry but this is so fucking lame. Your grandparents partied. Your grandparents hosted, they went to bars, they did shit. They didnt sit around and pride themselves for spending all of their free time staring at their children and mowing the lawn. Get the fuck out of your house. Take your wife out for a drink and listen to some live music. Have a conversation with someone at the bar. Go to a hockey game with your college buddies. Youre not somehow more mature for being homebound. Get a life.
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My grandfather, a newspaper publisher, had a seriously full social itinerary During the week, he always ate breakfast at the downtown diner. This was partly for business and networking Then he went out for or hosted 3-4 dinner parties a week This is an intense pace of socializing for today. I don’t know anyone who does this consistently. But it wasn’t really out of the ordinary at the time
"Your Grandparents Partied."
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The same way Oreos cure hunger
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The modern home has not functioned as a home for 100+ years. It's essentially become a refueling station for corporate labor and a theater for digital entertainment. The husband really only spends time there to sleep & eat before getting up each workday and spending 40, 50, 0r 60 hours a week working for a stranger’s business. The wife collapses there after running errands to feed the consumer machine and dropping off and picking up the kids from government subsidized schools and daycares. The children sit in dark bedrooms with glowing screens, being discipled by influencers and algorithms that hate their heritage, their faith, and their family. No food is grown. No timber is cut. No books are written. No livestock is cared for. No hammers are swung. No trades are taught. You bought a two-thousand-square-foot dormitory and theater and called it the American Dream. Tear down the facade. Turn the home back into a factory of life and rebuild that which was lost.
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You can't get fraternity by paying for it, or ethnogenesis by selecting people from a checklist Fictive kinship comes from a shared history of bold action - we can only find our friends in extremis (recording, no paywall, link below)
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He’s right and both the identitarian left and the reactionary right are in denial about this. The only people making it out of modernity are those not seeking the fallback of pre-determined ‘group identity.’ Group belonging is still necessary, but it will look different than before and a radical, new understanding of ‘friendship’ is the only way forward.
It’s a lot worse than this. I’m not sure there’s any modern authentic group identity. The process oecolamp describes here took place 200 yrs ago, by now all modern national identities are contrivances of the state system, propaganda, TV and the schools
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Guys won’t have a chance. When AI drives the internet - the content + the traffic - the likes + shares - writes the comments - drives the searches + the results - defines what’s news + what’s buried - shapes the safe opinions Guys won’t have a chance. Unless they’re weird.
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Excited to welcome @JoshuaSheats from Radical Personal Finance to the EXIT weekly call tonight We'll discuss his recent video essay, "All True Wealth is Biological", Radical Family Camp, making anchor babies, etc. exitgroup.us
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You have a sacred obligation to never let anyone (in the developed world) get away with saying "we live in such difficult times"
On January 8, 1888, 19-year-old Kate Kampen gave birth to her son, Henry Royal Kampen, alone in a freezing sod cabin on the Dakota prairie. Her husband, Wilhelm, had left the previous day to travel 23 miles to Parker for coal and food, unaware that their baby would arrive while he was gone. With their supplies nearly exhausted, the coal bin empty, and no doctor or midwife nearby, Kate faced an unimaginable situation. She wrapped her newborn in every scrap of cloth she could find, climbed into bed, and held him against her bare skin, using her own body heat to keep him alive. She had no way of knowing that an even greater danger was approaching. On January 12, the devastating Children’s Blizzard swept across the Great Plains, bringing ferocious winds, blinding snow, and temperatures plunging far below zero. Hundreds of people were caught in the storm, and 235 lives were lost. Wilhelm was stranded in the open prairie when the blizzard struck. After his horses collapsed, he stumbled toward shelter and eventually crawled into a barn, where he survived for three days by huddling among pigs for warmth. Meanwhile, Kate remained in the cabin, holding Henry close through the freezing nights, with no fire, no help, and no certainty that her husband would ever return. For days, her own warmth and determination became her newborn’s only protection against the deadly cold. When the storm finally passed, Wilhelm made his way home, frostbitten and barely able to stand, but alive. He built a fire, and the cabin slowly warmed again. Kate and Henry had survived against extraordinary odds. The couple went on to raise seven children, build a life on the prairie, and Kate lived into her nineties. Her story is a powerful reminder that courage does not always announce itself with grand gestures. Sometimes, it is a frightened young mother lying in the darkness, refusing to let go of her child. The world may never know the names of countless ordinary heroes, but their extraordinary acts of love and survival deserve to be remembered.
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Replying to @josephpmbrtn
When you are starved for good, strong role models, any role model that exhibits any strength, is palatable, even a psychopath. A man dying of thirst will drink muddy ditchwater after all. This also explains the Andrew Tate phenomenon. But there are clear springs of pure water out there and we should direct young men towards them.
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There has been a marked decline in the power of the Western mind. The late 19th century imperialists were self-satisfied high racialists. Moderns are Boasian antiracists seemingly committed to universal human rights etc. But how do the two compare in their powers of comprehension? Take the problem of understanding the power of the Houthis. A British imperialist from 1890 would have no trouble at all classifying them as 'a martial race'. Even if coded in racialist terms, there was a clear *recognition* of the anthropological variation in the world. They understood that the Gurkhas and the Pathans were not like the Baniyas and the Brahmins. That something distinguished the former from the latter. And that this anthropological variation had *operational significance* to the running of the empire. You could not get the Brahmin to hold the front any more than you get the Gurkha to understand Shakespeare. Modern Westerners reject out of hand the very idea of systematic anthropological variation. Populations are only distinguished, if they are distinguished at all, by how free (Westernized) and unfree (traditional) they are. You have either thrown off the yoke of tradition and embraced the ideas of the Enlightenment. Or you live under the oppressive weight of misguided traditional ideas like not wanting your daughter to have the right to fuck whoever she wants, whenever she wants. I do not mean here to suggest that the turn-of-the-century imperialists intuited the discoveries of midcentury social anthropology. Evans-Pritchard only wrote about the Nuer in 1940. I mean instead that the European imperialists *paid attention to the world*, instead of being lost in their own internal world. No doubt they had their own discourse of self-congratulation. But they knew that the world was strange and worthy of attention. That there was something about the world that they did not teach you at Eaton and Harrow, and that you had to learn in the field, so to speak. There was a certain empiricism in their attitude. A curiosity about the world. To the modern West, there is no outside world worth paying attention to. All that exists is conformity or incongruence with Boasian antiracist universalism, ie the modern Enlightenment. The peoples of the world cannot be distinguished in any interesting way at all. The world is flat in an essential sense. The Moderns are, strictly speaking, morons by the standards of the late 19th century.
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Maybe there are elements to Hatch’s advice that are outdated, but there’s something to making yourself desirable and putting yourself where you can have opportunities to meet people IRL.
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“You don’t want the apocalypse you are just desperate for community”
Replying to @Britt4rva
the apocalypse is gunna have like two gunfights a year max and you’ll probably lose the second and die instantly. Zombie shows did so much damage to our brains man. You don’t want the apocalypse you are just desperate for COMMUNITY. Go make friends bro.
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True with practically every issue our youth face. Our communities need to be strengthened. No need to sacrifice our youth in single combat with multi-billion industries.
Our youth are up against a multi-billion-dollar pornography industry engineering products to hook them early and enslave them for decades. When a youth whose brain is still developing gets trapped, they don’t need judgment or harshness or shame. They need our help.
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