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Soul retweeted
Tahun 1973, ada seorang anak muda melayu Islam berusia 25 tahun pohon menyewa dewan sebab sekolah dia Yayasan Anda Akademik kekurangan bilik darjah.
Dia sebagai Cikgu & rakan rakan cikgu lain mahu beri peluang kedua kepada anak Melayu yg miskin dan tercicir.
Yuran minimum sekolah, RM1 setahun. Ada anak miskin belajar percuma.
50 tahun kemudian, dia menjadi Perdana Menteri Malaysia. Ya, namanya Anwar Ibrahim.
So, mari kita doakan kesejahteraan untuk PMX kita.
Salam hormat.
Soul retweeted
Women were never oppressed. There was NO oppression. What women call oppression today was just PROTECTION.
Let me break it down for you:
1. VOTING:
Women say "we couldn't vote." But back then, voting was not a right, it was a RESPONSIBILITY. Only people who owned property, paid heavy taxes, held public office, or were drafted to DIE in wars could vote.
100% of the people dying in wars were men. You want to vote to send men to war, while you sit at home safe? Makes zero sense. Voting was linked to the DRAFT. You vote, you go to war. Men understood that.
2. BANKING:
"You needed your husband's signature!" Yes, because by LAW, a woman was LEGALLY PROTECTED from debt. Her husband was the head of household and by law HE was 100% liable for ALL debts she made. If she borrowed and couldn't pay, THEY CAME FOR HIM, not her. Creditors went to jail or lost everything - the husband.
So of course his signature was needed. He is the one who goes to prison if you don't pay.
3. PROPERTY - COVERTURE:
They cry about coverture. Coverture meant when you marry, your property merges under ONE name, the husband's, because there was ONE tax filing per household, not two like today. ONE household, ONE name, ONE tax.
It was not to steal from you. It was because the husband was legally responsible for you. If you got sued, he paid. If you owed taxes, he paid. He took your debts too.
These men had mothers they worshipped and daughters they would die for. They were not oppressing women, they were covering them.
4. CONTROLLING WOMEN'S BODIES:
The biggest lie. Back then there were NO abortion pills, NO condoms that worked, NO diapers, NO formula, NO government money to raise a child alone as a single mother, NO good jobs for women to survive alone.
Who bears the most risk in unprotected sex? THE WOMAN. She gets pregnant for 9 months, she risks death during childbirth, which was very common then.
So what did society do? They made sure women stayed virgins until marriage, and made sure men MARRIED them before sex. That is not oppression, that is PROTECTION from becoming a single mother with 3 kids and no food.
And it WORKED. Single motherhood rate was less than 5%. Marriage rate was 90%. Children grew up with fathers.
Today you have "freedom" - 40% single mothers, fatherless homes, abortions everywhere, and women crying that men don't want them.
There was never oppression. There was a system that understood biology and protected women from the consequences of their own choices.
Soul retweeted
Dunia hari ini sudah mencapai tahap hypersexuality yang sangat dahsyat dan kerosakannya bukan sekadar pada wanita. Lelaki juga sedang dihancurkan olehnya, dan akhirnya wanita turut menerima tempiasnya.
Salah satu biological drives yang sangat penting dalam diri seorang lelaki ialah sexual drive.
Dan sexual drive bukan semata-mata tentang sexual act itself. Ia sebahagian daripada sistem motivasi yang berkait dengan attraction, pursuit, competition, ambition dan pembentukan pasangan.
Lelaki secara semula jadi tertarik kepada kecantikan wanita. Itu bukan sesuatu yang perlu dinafikan atau dipermalukan. Tetapi dalam Islam, dorongan itu datang bersama satu prinsip yang sangat jelas which is you don't get the reward without carrying the responsibility.
Kalau seorang lelaki mahukan intimacy, companionship dan kecantikan seorang wanita, jalannya ialah perkahwinan dan perkahwinan datang bersama nafkah, perlindungan, komitmen dan tanggungjawab.
Masalahnya, kita sekarang hidup dalam environment yang membolehkan seorang lelaki mendapat simulasi reward hampir tanpa henti, tanpa perlu memikul responsibilities yang sepatutnya datang bersamanya.
Social media. Pornography. Algorithmic feeds. Hypersexualised advertising. Endless visual stimulation.
Kecantikan wanita pula dipamerkan secara berterusan dalam ruang awam dan digital sehingga sexual cues boleh sampai kepada lelaki sepanjang hari.
Ini mencipta sesuatu yang sangat abnormal dari sudut evolutionary environment.
high stimulation, low responsibility.
Lelaki boleh terus mengejar novelty tanpa perlu membina dirinya, mencari pasangan, berkahwin atau memikul tanggungjawab sebagai seorang suami.
Dan apabila reward menjadi terlalu mudah diperoleh, motivation untuk mengejar sesuatu yang memerlukan effort boleh turut berubah.
Akhirnya kita mencipta lelaki yang sexually stimulated tetapi psychologically stagnant.
Horny, but not driven.
Stimulated, but not disciplined.
Wanting the reward, but avoiding the responsibility.
Dan ironinya, masyarakat yang sama kemudian tertanya-tanya kenapa manusia semakin lambat berkahwin, semakin takut commitment dan semakin hilang drive untuk membina keluarga.
Sebab itu isu hypersexuality tidak boleh dipisahkan daripada isu perkahwinan.
Dalam environment yang sudah direka untuk memaksimumkan sexual stimulation dan meminimumkan friction, keluarga perlu melakukan sebaliknya:
Bimbing anak lelaki untuk mengawal sexual drive, not destroy it.
Bina mereka supaya mampu memikul responsibility, not run from it.
Dan apabila mereka sudah bersedia, jangan sengaja melambatkan jalan menuju perkahwinan dengan tuntutan budaya yang tidak perlu.
Perkahwinan bukan sekadar “ubat” untuk nafsu.
Ia adalah struktur yang meletakkan desire, responsibility, intimacy and family-building kembali dalam satu sistem.
Dalam dunia yang semakin hypersexualised, membantu anak-anak muda membina diri dan mempercepatkan perkahwinan yang baik bukan perkara kecil.
It may be one of the most important forms of damage control we have left.
Soul retweeted
Aku pelik bila org kecam pasal Budi Madani ni. Benda simple
Dulu diturunkan ke 200 Liter sebab berjimat. Sbb waktu tu bekalan minyak Malaysia tinggal 2 Bulan. Keluarnya Fakta 90 percent rakyat tak pakai kuota tu bukti yang Kerajaan boleh berjimat tanpa beri kesan kepada rakyat. Kalau tak jimat silap silap mahu stesen minyak byk habis. Atau kena berebut nak isi minyak waktu tu. Waktu tu kalau jadi aku yakin org akan marah kerajaan jugak. Rakyat terkesan gila.
Sekarang dah naik balik oklah tu. Sbb bekalan minyak Malaysia cukup sampai Disember.
Hari tu bukan ke ramai bising Ekonomi Malaysia power tapi rakyat tak rasa. Ni bagi rakyat rasa pun korang marah jugak. Kalau 90 Percent rakyat tak pakai sekurang kurangnya bajet tu boleh pergi ke bantuan lain. Bagaimana kalau ada Emergency. Sekurang-kurangnya mereka boleh pakai lebihan kuota tu. Apa salahnya rakyat dapat lebih?. Kan kita pun bayar cukai.
Ni bukti pengurusan Subsidi Minyak kita better sejak Program Budi Madani ni diperkenalkan. Dan jimat dalam bulan pertama sahaja RM 800 Juta . Byk gila tu yg boleh disalurkan kepada rakyat.
Mungkin ramai takleh imagine berapa byk penjimatan tu untuk rakyat. 800 Juta tu boleh bagi semua pelajar sekolah rendah menengah RM 150 untuk alat tulis. Jadi org miskin tak perlu risau bab sekolah sbb dh ada RM 150. Kalau bagi cash direct melalui STR. 1.6 Juta rakyat sekurang-kurangnya dapat duit
Paling jelas kalau takda subsidi. Harga subsidi rakyat Malaysia boleh gerak anggaran 375 km sekali isi RM 50 dari KL Sentral ke Butterworth. Kalau harga takda subsidi skrg. Boleh gerak dari KL Sentral ke Ipoh je. Nampak tak jauh beza tu. Harga sama minyak sikit. That's is the bantuan we told
Ada kata ni sbb politik ke apa ke. Ala kalau bantuan dapat korang tak nak undi dia pun takpa. Bukannya paksa. Still korang boleh undi parti lain. Cuma fikirlah kalau buat kerja bagus kenapa kita tak nak undi dia. Bukan ke kita undi dia sbb yakin dia boleh buat kerja bagus. Pasal isu gula gula PRU ni akan kekal ada selama mana Politik wujud. Kalau nanti parti korang naik pun sama gak diorang buat.
Aku tahu akan ada Cytro hentam kelemahan PMX. Kuil Haram, Rohingya dll. For me Yes ada kelemahan. Tapi kena discuss satu persatu ikut topik. Jgn campur aduk. That's politik matang. Satu lagi benda bagus kita puji benda tak bagus kita maki. Tu je . Walau apa parti sekalipun memerintah.
Dan untuk rakyat Malaysia yang beragama Islam. Mempertahankan Islam bukan sahaja mempertahankan terus identiti dan perkara dalam agama. Menguruskan kekayaan negara dengan baik juga cara mempertahankan Islam. Rujuk balik Zaman Empayar Islam dulu. Mereka kuat kerana Pengurusan Kewangan yang baik. Kejatuhan Empayar Türki Uthmaniyyah salah satunya sebab masalah kewangan.
For me Budi Madani. Kerajaan do it right. Not perfect still open for improvement. But at least gov do most of this thing right.
TERKINI
Kuota Budi95 Madani kini kembali naik semula daripada 200 Liter kepada 300 Liter dan Kuota Budi Diesel naik daripada 300 ke 400 Liter semula maklum PM Malaysia Datuk Seri Anwar Ibrahim
Ini susulan Malaysia berjaya mengawal baik krisis minyak global ketika ini. Sebelum ini ia dipotong kerana penjimatan perlu dibuat susulan krisis minyak akibat Perang US Iran
Soul retweeted
The one yang choose marriage and have halal relationship is better than those yang tidur/ couple merata sampai mengandung anak luar nikah.
Lebih ramai remaja berzina drpd kahwin muda. So where is your outrage about that?
You all should worry more pasal 21,000 remaja yg lahirkan anak luar nikah. Itu lagi merosakkan masa depan, nasab, dan maruah, berbanding yg dah nikah
Soul retweeted
Medeniyetten önce, ırklar henüz birbiriyle tanışmamışken dünyadaki tüm kıtalar KADINLARIN HAKLARINI KISITLADI.
Görücü usulü evlilikler kuruldu, cinsellikleri evliliğe kadar BEKÂRETLE sınırlandırıldı.
Ortada Zoom yoktu, internet yoktu. Farklı kıtalardaki 6 ayrı ırk nasıl olur da KADINLAR HAKKINDA AYNI SONUCA VARABİLDİ?
Beyaz, Siyah, Asyalı, Latin, Hintli, Arap... HEPSİ aynı sistemi kurdu. Şimdi bana bunun arkasında SAĞLAM BİR SEBEP olmadığını mı söylüyorsunuz?
Kadınlara eş seçme özgürlüğü verildiğinden beri tek ebeveynli aile oranı %5'ten %40+'ya fırladı.
Bekâret şartı kalktığından beri fuhuş, OnlyFans ve yılda MİLYONLARCA KÜRTAJ patladı.
Tarihin en iyi nesilleri, en güvenli sokakları, en güçlü medeniyetleri kadınların haklarının kısıtlı olduğu dönemde kuruldu.
Hiçbir alet olmadan ev yapan, savaşlardan sağ çıkan büyük-büyük-büyükbabanızın aptal olduğunu, sizin ise TİKTOK'unuz olduğu için akıllı olduğunuzu mu sanıyorsunuz?
Sizi kısıtladılar çünkü ÖĞRENDİLER. Bir kadına SINIRSIZ ÖZGÜRLÜK verirsen toplumun çökeceğini, ailenin dağılacağını gördüler.
Siz buna baskı diyorsunuz. Onlar ise DÜZEN diyordu.
Ve o düzen 5000 YIL İŞLEDİ.
Sizin özgürlüğünüz ise 50 YILDIR DİKİŞ TUTTURAMADI!
Soul retweeted
Behind every successful man is a woman.
Behind every unsuccessful man is himself and his failures. No woman.
Behind every successful woman is herself.
Behind every unsuccessful woman is a man, the marriage, patriarchy, society, or something else. It’s always someone else’s fault.
Notice the difference. When a man makes it, they tell you, “She held down the home, raised the kids, supported him, and allowed him to go out and make money.”
But when she becomes the successful one, they rarely remember the man who held down the home, supported her, paid the bills, or made sacrifices so she could pursue her success.
They always want to share the credit when a man wins while still wanting 100% of the credit for their own success and somehow none of the blame when things go wrong.
Have women been using this double standard for so long that men have simply accepted it?
They want the credit when you win, but none of the blame when you lose. Thieves.
Soul retweeted
Kinda funny how people are wow-ing at how much free grocery Malaysians are getting from the government each month and yet A LOT of people are still very willing to vote it all away in the next election like 🤡 I would say don't be dumb but they were born that way
Soul retweeted
Lepas ni BN menang, kembali ke asal. Petrol takde limit, BUDI dihapuskan..warga asing, seludup diesel Kembali spt biasa sbb rakyat BNPN suka benda tu.
Minyak peket pun sesiapa boleh beli..berebut la kita dgn berjuta warga asing yg ada kat negara ni..
Soul retweeted
your relationship with discipline changes so much when you shift doing things from shame to love. from ‘i have to clean’ to realizing i deserve to have a clean home. from ‘i need to work out’ to i deserve to have a healthy body. you deserve to have the best from yourself.
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Soul retweeted
in order to become a better person, you must first realize how horrible you really are. not in the dramatic sense, but in the quiet ways you sabotage yourself, repeat unhealthy patterns, hurt people who care about you, or tolerate what wounds you. you cannot grow if you keep pretending you’re innocent in the story you’ve created.
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Soul retweeted
Kenapa suka guna alasan no demand no service? Siapa yang suruh those minors jual nudes and sex? NO ONE. No one is obligated pun utk jual service, yet they still doing it for easy money and fun
Go look at Only Fans, berapa ramai sanggup jual badan eventhough takde sapa subscribe.
Ada 10001 demand sekalipun, tiada siapa suruh those ppl untuk rakam video and post dekat tele. They have a CHOICE.
So stop enabling them
Soul retweeted
So it was under the State after all...bukan under PMX
😂😂😂😂
#NSTnation The Iskandar Puteri City Council (MBIP) has issued a Stop-Business Notice to premises linked to the operations of Network School in Forest City after the company was found to have breached its business licence conditions and the approved use of its premises.
bit.ly/4wIVMPZ
Soul retweeted
Terjumpa thread ni and it got me notice this pattern:
Kenapa bila yg perempuan meluah, berpusu pusu orang support tanpa pertikaikan apa2, walaupun tak tahu pucuk pangkal cerita
Tapi bila lelaki yang meluah, begitu ramai orang terutamanya wanita, akan salahkan lelaki tu balik?
Kesian betul i tengok lelaki zaman sekarang. You guys basically have no channel at all utk luahkan perasaan. Luah kat bini, bini salahkan suami. Luah kat socmed, dipersalahkan lagi.
At this point, banyaklah mengadu dekat Allah. Semoga berjumpa dengan pasangan2 yang baik dan boleh mendengar tanpa menyalahkan.
Benda ni mcm Teori Ketidakpadanan Evolusi (Evolutionary Mismatch Theory).
Basically kenapa manusia moden lemah dan ada mcm2 penyakit dsbbkan persekitaran kita dah terlalu selesa.
Kita dicipta utk aktif bergerak tapi gaya hidup moden membuatkan kita pasif setempat.
Saintis di Finland menjalankan satu eksperimen yang mana mereka menukar halaman tadika yang asalnya berbatu kerikil kepada tanah hutan sebenar, lengkap dengan rumput dan blok tanah gambut.
Selepas hanya sebulan kanak-kanak bermain di situ, ujian darah menunjukkan perubahan yang luar biasa.
Kepelbagaian bakteria pada kulit mereka meningkat, dan sel imun yang berfungsi untuk menenangkan badan daripada reaksi alahan (macam debunga atau kacang) bertambah dengan ketara.
Sebaliknya, kanak-kanak yang kekal di kawasan kerikil tidak menunjukkan sebarang perubahan positif ini.
Pakar berhipotesis bahawa punca utama kepada lonjakan penyakit asma dan alahan makanan dalam kalangan kanak-kanak sejak beberapa dekad kebelakangan ini adalah kerana kanak-kanak "terlalu bersih."
Lihat saja taman permainan sekarang yg dahulunya berlantaikan rumput dan pasir, bertukar menjadi getah dan plastik.
Statistik di Amerika Syarikat sangat membimbangkan. Misalnya, alahan kacang dalam kalangan kanak-kanak setahun melonjak tiga kali ganda antara tahun 2001 hingga 2017.
Sistem imun kanak-kanak hari ini membesar dalam persekitaran yang kekurangan pendedahan kepada bakteria semula jadi yang sepatutnya melatih badan mereka untuk jadi lebih kuat.
Tambah pula gaya hidup moden yang mengehadkan masa bermain di luar — 37% kanak-kanak prasekolah di Amerika hanya luang masa kurang sejam sehari di luar rumah — telah melumpuhkan kemampuan semula jadi badan untuk beradaptasi.
Bak kata Aki Sinkkonen (ketua penyelidik yg jalan kajian, "Paling bagus kalau kanak-kanak boleh bermain dalam lopak air dan semua orang boleh menggali tanah organik."
Sekarang, kerajaan Finland dah ambil langkah drastik dengan membiayai transformasi halaman tadika di seluruh negara untuk mengembalikan tanah dan alam semulajadi ke dalam kehidupan harian kanak-kanak.
Ada sbb jugak kenapa kita malas eksesais.
Puncanya kita memang tak dicipta utk tu. Rujukan:
howardluksmd.substack.com/p/…
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