
United Way of Central Illinois President & CEO. Retired coach. Believes in teamwork and accountability. Mom of 2 amazing kids. #lakelife
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Marne Fauser retweeted
Be great without being high maintenance. Show up on time, wear the right gear, be coachable, support your teammates & give 100% every practice & game. High maintenance is hard. Coaches love low-maintenance players who buy in & make the process fun. You’re what makes coaching fun!
Marne Fauser retweeted
Worth two minutes of your time to hear Jimmy Rogers lay bare one of the main ills facing big-time college sports and the athletes themselves.
Iowa State Daily's @henry_annen asked Rogers what he needs from new AD Jared Benko to elevate Iowa State football.
Good stuff.
Exceptional from @CoachDrinkwitz. The real job of a college football coach is to develop men for life. The transfer portal has stolen that ability because the kids can leave at the first sign of adversity. Adversity is what’s used to forge character.
Marne Fauser retweeted
There’s ZERO reason for travel ball at 8, 9, or 10. Play Little League, develop, and have fun. If I could do it again, I wouldn’t recommend travel ball that young. I’ve seen too many kids burned out by high school. Agree or disagree, that’s my take.
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Youth basketball needs a new approach in the U.S. Endless drills strip the game of context. Coaches aren’t drill sergeants, they’re game designers. Real growth comes from designing environments where players must read, decide & adapt. The result? Smarter, more adaptable athletes.
Marne Fauser retweeted
It’s ok to go to homecoming. It’s ok to go to prom. It’s ok to be a teenager AND a serious basketball player.
Marne Fauser retweeted
Tom Izzo shares an uncomfortable truth about earning your spot.
"You play real good, you start. You don't play as good, you work your way back in."
"That's the American way - except America has gotten soft."
You don't get what you want in life - you get what you earn.
It starts with showing up and earning it every single day.
No shortcuts...Just hard work.
(🎥@CBBonFOX)
Marne Fauser retweeted
For 8–15-year-olds, development isn’t about “grinding.” It’s about playing, exploring, competing, experimenting, solving problems & having fun. There’s plenty of time for the serious stuff. Let’s create environments where kids discover the game and fall in love with playing it.
Marne Fauser retweeted
If you're yelling at a ref at your 10-year-olds soccer/baseball/football game, it's time for some self-evaluation.
Why does it matter so much to you?
What behaviors are you teaching your kid?
This isn't complicated, yet it happens all the time.
~ via @stevemagness
Welles Crowther was a former Boston College lacrosse player who had a trademark red bandanna.
He was also working in New York on Sept. 11, 2001 when terrorists struck the World Trade Center.
This is the story of how he led people to safety on that fateful day 25 years ago.
Marne Fauser retweeted
I’ve noticed parents who actually had successful sports careers are usually the quietest at games. They let their kids play and coaches coach. The loudest parents are often trying to live the career they never had through their kids. Let the kids have THEIR journey.
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Please support Missouri Baptist University Women's Basketball by donating to the Spartans team campaign presented by @eTeamSponsor! 👉 ets.rocks/4gTmSxx
Marne Fauser retweeted
Boston College and Rutgers were always scheduled to play this season. Boston College moved the game to Friday night on purpose.
September 11, 2026. Twenty five years.
Rutgers is the FBS program closest to New York City. Thirty seven of their alumni were killed that day, including a football letterwinner named James Martello.
So every helmet Friday night will carry the number 37, along with the names of the people it stands for.
Never Forget runs down the sides of the jersey. The striping is a tribute to first responders. Players who wear the gloves can lock their hands together and the gloves read Never Forget too.
Nothing on that uniform is a design choice.
Boston College honors one man.
Welles Crowther was a BC graduate working as an equities trader in the South Tower. He was also a volunteer firefighter back home in Rockland County, New York.
When the building was hit, he went down to the 78th floor sky lobby, where dozens of people were trapped and badly hurt, and started getting them out. He carried a woman on his back down seventeen flights of stairs.
Then he went back up.
He did that over and over.
He is credited with saving 18 people.
The survivors who got out couldn't tell anybody who he was. They didn't know his name. All they could describe was that the man leading them down had a red bandanna tied over his mouth and nose to keep the smoke out.
That's how the world came to know him. The man in the red bandanna.
He didn't make it out.
Since 2014, Boston College has played one Red Bandanna Game every season. The bandanna pattern runs through the numbers, the sleeves and the trim. Where a player's last name normally goes, the jersey reads For Welles.
Friday night is that game.
So on the 25th anniversary, in Chestnut Hill, one team runs out carrying 37 names on their helmets.
The other runs out wearing a dead man's bandanna.
Marne Fauser retweeted
I'm sorry that this will piss off half the parents reading this:
Your 11 year old probably doesn’t need a $8,000-a-year travel team.
Meanwhile, mom and dad haven’t had a weekend alone in 8 months because every Friday afternoon the SUV is packed for another tournament 4 hours away.
They need to just play sports (if they want).
There’s a difference.
$3,000 team fee.
$2,500 hotels.
$1,500 eating out.
$500 uniforms.
$500 entrance fees
Every weekend gone, and somehow we convince ourselves this makes us better parents.
Then we wonder why marriages struggle. Put the kid in rec ball and let them play with their buddies.
Take your wife to dinner. Take a family vacation that doesn’t involve a Marriott next to a sports complex.
If your kid is truly THAT good, you’ll eventually know.
But I think a lot of parents are sacrificing their marriage, money and entire family calendar chasing a scholarship that probably isn’t coming.
I agree that most kids need sports.
I’m just not convinced they need travel sports.
That's me - the one who forgot their $5 hat for picture day on a team that cost $20 for the season.
Marne Fauser retweeted
Ben McCollum said, "Your job is to not be here for yourself - but it’s to be here for everybody else."
Great teams are built of selflessness.
• You show up for each other.
• You sacrifice for each other.
• You win with each other.
(@IowaHoops)
Marne Fauser retweeted
KIRK HERBSTREIT ON PARENTING
"I'm cool with my kids failing... It's part of the process. Every day there is adversity... They have to learn how to deal with junk... It's okay to make a mistake. Get back up and let's keep going forward."
~ @KirkHerbstreit @thewinningdiff1
Marne Fauser retweeted
Teach kids how to lose. Losing isn’t quitting, pouting, blaming or tantrums. It isn’t “feel-good” trophies either. Losing means lessons to learn, work to do, & the courage to come back tomorrow stronger & better. You can’t be a great winner until you’ve truly learned how to lose.



















