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#stoicsense - The crime rate in the black community is due to the father absence phenomenon. Just remind me who's been writing all the social policies/wider legislation for the BAME community and how they feel about "the western prescribed nuclear family unit"???? – at Wales, United Kingdom
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Well said...
One of my political pet peeves is leftists blaming conservatives for the culture wars they themselves started.
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Excellent points by @hermannkelly that apply to the UK as well as Ireland. This is the biggest human rights abuse scandal across these islands and it is hiding in plain sight. Matt O’C
Fathers are vital in a child's life and deserve justice in Family Law. We need vast legal reform. @Fathers4Justice @mensvoicesIreland 1. Custody and Access Inequities • Primary Carer Bias: Statistics and court observations indicate that mothers are designated as the primary residential carers in the vast majority (approx. 95%) of separation and divorce cases. • Resistance to Equal Shared Parenting: Fathers' groups argue that the system defaults to a "winner-takes-all" or single-custody model rather than promoting or legislating for equal shared parenting time. • Enforcement of Access Orders: Critics highlight that when a primary carer (frequently the mother) breaches court-ordered access or withholds contact, family courts have few effective mechanisms or are reluctant to impose heavy penalties or custodial sentences out of concern for disrupting the child. 2.Disadvantages for Unmarried Fathers • Lack of Automatic Guardianship: Under the Guardianship of Infants Act 1964 and Irish constitutional law (Article 41 and Article 40.3), married parents and unmarried mothers have automatic guardianship rights, whereas unmarried fathers do not. • Birth Certificate Myth: Simply having an unmarried father's name on the child's birth certificate does not grant him automatic legal rights or a say in major decisions (such as medical treatment, education, or religious upbringing) unless he formally registers or goes through the courts. 3. Financial Burden and Maintenance • Double-Housekeeping Costs: Men frequently report facing orders that require them to vacate the family home while simultaneously paying a mortgage, rent for alternative accommodation, and spousal or child maintenance. • Lack of Fixed Formulas: The absence of rigid, transparent maintenance formulas leads to high unpredictability, large legal overheads, and a perception that financial settlements disproportionately drain men's resources. 4. Adversarial System and Legal Costs • High Legal Fees: The adversarial nature of Irish family courts drives up legal costs, disadvantaging self-represented (lay) litigants. Men report being less likely to qualify for legal aid or struggling to afford representation against protracted litigation. • In-Camera Rule and Secrecy: Advocacy groups have increasingly pushed to reform or lift the strict in-camera (private) rule in family courts, arguing that a lack of public scrutiny allows procedural unfairness, bias, or un-evidenced allegations (such as disputed claims of emotional abuse or alienation) to go unchecked behind closed doors.
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💥 Taken Alive for the Sake of the Talks 💥 A former SAS operator has now confirmed what many in our community long suspected. In 1997, when the Regiment finally cornered Bernard McGinn, the imperative was to take him alive. Not because it was the safest tactical option in every circumstance, but because killing him risked jeopardising the secret political negotiations then under way. McGinn was no bit player. He was part of the South Armagh sniper team that had killed multiple members of the security forces. He was linked to the murder of Lance Bombardier Stephen Restorick — the last British soldier killed by the IRA before the Agreement. He had a role in the major mainland bombing campaign, including the Docklands attack that killed two people and caused enormous destruction. When the SAS moved on the farm near Crossmaglen, they were dealing with a man who had left a trail of blood and wreckage. Yet the political track took priority. The operator’s account makes clear that the mission parameters were shaped by the need not to disrupt the talks. Capture was the requirement. The peace process, still fragile and largely conducted behind closed doors, could not afford a high-profile lethal outcome that republicans might exploit. This is the reality that is too often airbrushed. While the IRA continued to kill and bomb, the state’s most effective operators were operating under political constraints designed to keep the negotiations alive. The same organisation that was murdering soldiers and bombing London was being treated as a party that could not be pressed too hard for fear of collapsing the process. McGinn was eventually captured, confessed to a string of serious offences, and received a sentence measured in centuries. He was free again within a short time under the terms of the Agreement. That sequence — constrained operations, early release, and the elevation of those who directed the campaign into the political mainstream — is the settlement our community was asked to accept. The SAS did its job within the rules it was given. The question that remains is whether those rules properly reflected the threat or whether they reflected a political calculation that the process mattered more than maximum pressure on active terrorists. The operator’s account suggests the latter. For those who lost family members to the sniper teams and the mainland bombs, the knowledge that the priority was to keep a man like McGinn alive for the sake of the talks is not a footnote. It is a measure of the imbalance that ran through the final years of the conflict. The process was protected. The victims were expected to understand. That is the price that was paid. It should not be forgotten. #SAS #BernardMcGinn #PeaceProcess #RuleOfLaw #Troubles #PUL #NorthernIreland #NeverForget
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I am sick of hearing people talking about the British Empire and slavery reparations. Firstly, it makes no sense to compare today’s social standards to standards of the past. You want to talk about British Empire? Fine compare it to other empires. In the context of empires, the British Empire was the most progressive in history. - abolished slavery - brought law & order to countries - brought democracy to countries - improved education standards across the world - improved women rights across the world Context is key. Study the impact of all empires before commenting on Britain’s. Britain should not pay a single penny on slavery reparations.
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Men and boys are often victims. Males deserve to be believed. And men deserve protection... Domestic abuse has no gender. Men and boys can experience physical violence, coercive control, sexual abuse, stalking, humiliation and psychological manipulation. Too many males suffer in silence, fearing ridicule, disbelief, separation from their children, or nowhere safe to escape. 🎬 ESSENTIAL VIEWING 📺 My Wife, My Abuser (Channel 5) — The harrowing true story of Richard Spencer, who endured years of horrific physical and psychological abuse by his wife. A powerful reminder that male victims can suffer extreme violence behind closed doors. 📺 Baby Reindeer (Netflix) — An extraordinary drama exploring male sexual victimisation, stalking, trauma and the complexities of abuse. 📺 Abused by My Girlfriend (BBC Three) — Alex Skeel's courageous account of surviving severe domestic violence inflicted by his female partner. 🎥 MEN TOO (DAVIA) — International survivor testimonies highlighting the shortage of dedicated shelters for male victims. 🎥 #ViolenceIsViolence (ManKind Initiative) — Exposing society's disturbing double standards when men experience domestic violence. 📚 ESSENTIAL READING Erin Pizzey, a pioneer of the domestic violence refuge movement, challenged conventional narratives about abuse. Her books Prone to Violence and This Way to the Revolution deserve serious consideration... 🏠 FROM AWARENESS TO ACTION Australian advocate Paddy Murray has proposed establishing at least one dedicated domestic violence refuge for men in every Australian capital city, a proposal worthy of serious attention. Male victims, including fathers escaping with children, deserve safe accommodation, counselling, legal assistance and compassionate support. We must challenge the stigma, listen to survivors and ensure that services are available to everyone who needs them... Violence is violence. Abuse is abuse. A victim is a victim. COMPASSION MUST NEVER DEPEND ON SEX. 💙 Men, you are not alone. 💙 🔗 mankind.org.uk/news-and-camp… 🇦🇺 Support: 1800RESPECT — 1800 737 732 #MaleVictims #MenYouAreNotAlone #DomesticAbuse #DomesticViolence #MensEquality #GenderEquality
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This "they aborted females because they hate women" excuse is stupid. Especially the China and India examples. Let's use actual facts. China never had an "only boys" policy. They had the *One Child Policy from 1979 to 2015* because they had over 900 million people and not enough food, jobs, or housing. The policy was one child. Not one boy. And here's the part y'all skip: *Widespread ultrasound didn't exist in China until the 1980s.* Before that, you couldn't even know the sex. You had one kid, boy or girl, and that was it. When ultrasound did spread, some families started choosing boys. Not because of some evil male conspiracy. Because of economics in a pre-industrial country. China in the 80s wasn't laptops and nursing jobs. It was farms, factories, and manual labor. No pensions. No social security for most rural families. Your old-age plan was your son. A son stayed. A daughter married out and belonged to her husband's family. If you only get ONE child, and you need someone to farm, do heavy labor, and take care of you when you're 70, you pick the one who stays. India is the same logic, plus dowry. In India, a daughter didn't just cost food. She cost a *dowry* - a payment the bride's family gives to the groom's family. The Dowry Prohibition Act was passed in 1961 and families still couldn't afford it. And after you pay it, she leaves. You are left alone with no one to farm, no one to earn, no one to care for you. A son is the opposite. He brings in dowry, he stays, he farms, he works, he cares for you. So poor families in both countries made a brutal, economic choice. Not a feminist hate crime. A survival choice under poverty, a one-child limit, no welfare state, and a patrilocal culture where sons stay and daughters leave. Stop rewriting history to make it sound like men sat in a room and said "let's kill women." They were trying not to starve and die alone at 70 with no one to help them. If you want to blame someone, blame poverty, blame the One Child Policy, blame the dowry system. Don't blame "men" for an economic system that crushed everybody.
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🚨 Five years on, NO PROGRESS 🤔 The gender equity crisis in sport and exercise medicine publishing persists - action is now overdue Find out the specific, systemic solutions in this #BJSMEditorial ✅ Read 👉 bit.ly/3RN7SsD
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Si una relación se rompe, la mujer tiene 5 veces más posibilidades de matar a sus hijos y los hombres 40 veces más posibilidades de matarse a si mismo que a otra persona. Peor si un crine lo hace él, es"violencia machista", si lo hace ella "suicidio ampliado por compasión"
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More Americans think that all-female social groups have a positive impact on society, compared to all-male social groups. But with so many men feeling disconnected, we need these male-only groups more than ever.
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“He who has once understood that in madness alone lies man’s completion, is thus led to make a clear choice not between madness and reason, but between the lie of ‘a nightmare of justifiable snores,’ and the will to self-mastery and victory”
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An unending love is what they've taken from us all in one form or another xxx
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Yes. It's irrational because 5% of the criminal population, commit the majority of crime in society. Assigning collective guilt the way you just have, when less than 1% of the population is to blame, makes women and girls scared of shadows. Bravo 🔔 🔚
So you think it's irrational for women, who make up 88% of all sexual assault victims, to fear men, who make up 98% of perpetrators - a statistic that doesn't change if the men identify as women?
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For thousands of years, child mortality was 48-49%. In 200 years — that is, since the Enlightenment combination of reason, science, and capitalism took hold — it has fallen to less than 5%.
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It’s boys and men who are discriminated against, blamed and shamed and unsupported in society today. But the vast majority of people honestly believe it’s the other way around. How do we wake them up to reality?
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"Es que los hombres son egocéntricos" ya... Los aspirantes a un trabajo escribían un CV hablando modestamente de ellos. Fueron percibidos como débiles e inseguros, y por ello eran descargados. Al hombre no se le permite ni un atisbo de debilidad psycnet.apa.org/doiLanding?d…
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Tomorrow, 4 November, is Supporting Male Victims of Domestic Abuse Day, organised by the ManKind Initiative. Much of men's suffering goes uncounted. UN for Men - The United Global Alliance For Men & Boys will mark the day with what the data shows. #MenYouAreNotAlone Not affiliated with the United Nations.
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This video clip was the first big one of Anakin discourse. It is 17 seconds long. 👀 This image is "Anakin." It appears at 13 seconds. 👀👀 But this image is not Anakin. It is Lucifer from a famous 1847 painting called "The Fallen Angel."
“Experts are concerned that Anakin Skywalker is becoming a symbol of right-wing extremism.”
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Magical thinking
In the U.S., 43% of women under the age of 50 believe in astrology compared to 20% of men.
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