Silwal retweeted
Knowing that I don’t have to second guess where I stand with someone. Being able to express how I feel without fear of being misunderstood, dismissed or made to feel like I’m asking for too much. Consistency, gentleness, honesty and reassurance. A love that allows me to exhale. 🥹❤️
Silwal retweeted
Mimi ukiniitisha pesa, even as low as 100 bob, you tell me you'll pay me in x days and you don't, hiyo ni mara ya mwisho you'll hear from me.
Heri uniambie nikuokolee and that's it but utanilipa na usilipe?
Silwal retweeted
Actually now umefanya nijue where l got that thought process from. Kumbe ni kukua raised in very close proximity to Luhyas. Juu mi husema separation 101, sons should be raised by their fathers. 😂😂
Enyewe mtoto boy abaki tu na the father mkiachana, that child will punish you the mom for staying and worship the dad for leaving, unless otherwise
Silwal retweeted
" A parent's absence is not a child's shame to fix"
So the motivation for reconciling with an absent father is that one day someone's parents might ask who your father is and what he does? 😂 Imagine making a deeply personal decision about healing and family relationships based on how presentable your family background will look at a potential in-laws' interview. A parent's absence is not a child's shame to fix. And if a family considers you less worthy because your father was a deadbeat, perhaps you've just discovered another red flag. Run!
Damaged keh? But he left a child, a helpless being (his blood mark you) to be raised by the damaged woman.
