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Upstairs
Joined January 2026
Silwal retweeted
Knowing that I don’t have to second guess where I stand with someone. Being able to express how I feel without fear of being misunderstood, dismissed or made to feel like I’m asking for too much. Consistency, gentleness, honesty and reassurance. A love that allows me to exhale. 🥹❤️
What does SAFE feel like to you.? 🥹
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Silwal retweeted
when love visits again.. may it be safe, secure & reassuring
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Going from obsessed to completely uninterested is a talent I built brick by brick and I'm extremely proud of it
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Women who pick careers over men>>>>>>>>
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We need to stop acting like having a good partner isn't an achievement Do you know how hard it is to find a normal-behaving human in this generation??
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Mimi ukiniitisha pesa, even as low as 100 bob, you tell me you'll pay me in x days and you don't, hiyo ni mara ya mwisho you'll hear from me. Heri uniambie nikuokolee and that's it but utanilipa na usilipe?
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Replying to @ShaniaWagema
And it's okay
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Silwal retweeted
I really just want to be one of those women driving Big cars🥹🤍
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Replying to @____lyyo
Actually now umefanya nijue where l got that thought process from. Kumbe ni kukua raised in very close proximity to Luhyas. Juu mi husema separation 101, sons should be raised by their fathers. 😂😂
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I get where you're coming from but you should really stop coming from there.
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Silwal retweeted
" A parent's absence is not a child's shame to fix"
Replying to @RamzZy_
So the motivation for reconciling with an absent father is that one day someone's parents might ask who your father is and what he does? 😂 Imagine making a deeply personal decision about healing and family relationships based on how presentable your family background will look at a potential in-laws' interview. A parent's absence is not a child's shame to fix. And if a family considers you less worthy because your father was a deadbeat, perhaps you've just discovered another red flag. Run!
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Anniversary week in our household and i don't understand how it's already been 6 years!!??!!🥹 I need to lock in and marry this man afresh coz wow, what a man!!!
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The best thing you can do for yourself as a woman is to be a moving babe. Heartbreak? Move Job rejection? Move Homelessness? Move Family issues? Move It always pays.
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Doorstep by Bensoul is for lovers☺️
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I think there’s something very attractive about seeing your partner in their element.
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Lord , heal me from the memories that still change my mood when they cross my mind. 🤲🏽💗
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Silwal retweeted
I love it when a skinny person sits next to me in a matatu. Like wow, look at us 2 skinny people with all this space to us
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Silwal retweeted
I love me a man who is a waist grabber.
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I want to experience Greece, bali, Switzerland, Morocco, Turkey, Maldives and Spain so bad. I want to see the world!
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Mimi nayo sitawadanganya, Apart from this hot weather, I'm not going through anything. God has provided abundantly on this end.
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